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My goodness, the author-targeting spambots are upping their game.
I delete the obviously AI-generated messages promising me tons of readers if I'll just contact their "book club" so that they can feature me. As many other authors have documented (thank you, Karen Swallow Prior),if you do respond, you very soon get to the "Well, we just need you to invest a couple of hundred dollars" point.
This "European Book Club" (also a documented scam, not to be confused with the legitimate European Book Club project based in Germany) has emailed me three separate times. Here's their most recent missive.
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I'm writing this message with honesty and restraint because I believe clarity is better than continued silence. I have followed up with you several times with care, respect, and genuine commitment, and I’ll admit it has been disappointing to see my messages read without a reply. I fully understand that you are busy, and I respect that. But even a brief response yes, no, later, not interested would go a long way. Professional courtesy matters, and so does simple communication.
I want you to know something clearly: my persistence has never been about money. It has been about the real appreciation I have for The Great Shadow and my sincere desire to support its visibility and help readers engage with its important insights. I don’t repeatedly follow up with every author, only the ones whose work I truly believe in. That is why I stayed engaged with you.
But I also need to be transparent on my side: continuing to follow up without acknowledgment is discouraging and not sustainable. My time and effort are real too. I’ve shown up consistently for you, and I had hoped for the same level of basic response in return.
If you no longer wish to move forward with the Spotlight conversation we discussed, please just say so directly. I will respect your decision and stop reaching out. No pressure, no resentment, just clarity.
I'm not trying to be rude, only honest and fair. Please put yourself in my position for a moment and understand how prolonged silence feels from this side.
I would truly appreciate a clear reply either way.
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Well, they're not getting one, because if I respond to this email (which, like all the previous ones, were sent to the generic contact address on my website), they've got my ACTUAL email address and will never go away.
I'm just kind of gobsmacked by the blatant guilting going on here. That's one AI generator that knows something about the human psyche.
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Yikes. The threatening escalation is … something.
(But an editor would have been a good investment on their part, too.) 🤣
Seems like it might call for a restraining order. Are you sure this bot doesn't have a wall filled with pictures of you and a timeline of your normal activities? 😅
Yes, I have a couple vendors who keep sending me "follow up" emails and "one last time" emails. In my head, I deploy Mr Carlson who declines to provide specifics as to why I'm not at home to them.
Wow, that's a really passive aggressive robot!
Wow! However, I wouldn’t worry about ‘knows something about the human psyche’ though - pretty easy for a programmer to add a layer: if no reply within x days follow up with another letter in this vein …
Case study in passive-aggressive communication, or it would be if there was anything passive about that.
My head went in circles with the awful writing. Makes a person want to work with them though😂. We no longer use the term passive aggressive we just go ahead and label it hidden aggression now. Nothing hidden about this one. I get similar stuff on my dog and art IG accounts. Thankfully can block them but artists complain all the time about the aggressive way they communicate.
Is it just me, or does this email give off creepy "but I'm a nice guy" vibes?
We practised our cursive handwriting every year up through high school, and although my dear late mother would shudder at what my handwriting now looks like (I've reverted to printing, as many people who write extensively by hand do), I've always appreciated the value of cursive practice.
(Here's hoping this is less contentious than Ilia Malinin's skating costume!)
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If boomers and Gen X are puzzled that many youngsters are not required to endure the same painstaking labor of mastering cursive that they were, they might be even more surprised — perhaps, even delighted — to hear that some are learning the craft entirely for fun.
“I see why we’re not teaching cursive to a degree. All of our literature now is in print. The computers, typing, texting — it’s print, it’s not cursive,” Kenerson said. “So a lot of people probably felt like we don’t need that anymore. That’s outdated. But science wise and mentally, we do.”
In the early 2000s, as technology picked up, cursive was declared all but dead. By 2006, only 15 percent of SAT essays were written in cursive. The Common Core standards released in 2010 did not include cursive as a required curriculum, leading to states around the country to drop the requirement.
But in the years since, there has been a steady effort to preserve the art by historians and educators like Kenerson. Clubs, camps and optional classes like hers have popped up around the country. In recent years, states from California to Pennsylvania have passed legislation to mandate the teaching of cursive in school and further cement handwriting skills.
The resurgence comes as a rise in screens and artificial intelligence motivates conversations about the role of technology in education. Research suggests handwriting is a key tool for learning and memory. It activates brain activity like motor, sensory and cognitive processing better than typing does.
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You should be able to read the whole delightful report at this gift link:
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Meet the middle-schoolers keeping cursive alive, one swoop at a time
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Script is finding new life in after-school clubs where students can learn to loop and swoosh their handwriting.2 days ago
What do you think of the idea of teaching cursive before print? After I read in Drawing with Children that kids below a certain age can't draw a straight line due to developmental stage, I realized that when I was young, cursive may have been harder to read, but it was easier to write.
Still taught in some places because cursive is quicker (no picking up pen mid-word), easier to distinguish b/d, easier for dyslexic & dysgraphic students to read and write. We need people who can read old documents (e.g. Declaration of Independence) written in cursive!
I can usually tell how old our customers are by their cursive. Because it seems each decade practiced a certain “font” until everyone had the same handwriting.
In Latin America, we learn to write in cursive first. That’s what I wrote in until fifth grade. Honestly, it is easier when they are young. Books in Spanish tend to have cursive as well.
After teaching my kiddo cursive for homeschool, I started learning Spencerian script myself and have really enjoyed it. I now prefer to write in cursive than print!
Cursive basically automatically corrected my kids’ dysgraphia, I’m a huge fan.
I'm of the age that my elementary school sent our handwriting off to be evaluated professionally twice a year, noting where we were at the beginning and end of each grade, starting in 4th. We first learned formation in 3rd grade, then continued with handwriting for two more years. I like writing in cursive and think it's a useful skill.
I work in a library. Along with one of my co-workers, we're offering a cursive class for adults in April. I'm hoping that people will see it as a fun and relaxing exercise.
I had my children start with handwriting or handwriting copywork, daily, through grade six. I felt it was a way to mindfully orient them to the day and it was a bonus that the process upheld a self-correcting standard first thing.
My son has dysgraphia and learned to write with French cursive. They use graph paper and each letter fits in a square. I brought back paper for years from Europe as it helped him so much. Myself I use a mix of cursive letters that are a mix of the languages I have learned with print. Since I taught a lot of kids and they all were taught different styles that also worked into my own handwriting. I don't think time needs to be spent in the classroom on handwriting but I homework practice is valid.
Nice to know I'm not the only one who reverted to printing for most things. Cursive is much prettier, but it takes too long and when I'm in a hurry my printing is more legible than my cursive (even I can't read it half the time).
I do my handwriting in mostly cursive with a couple letters in print. I just prefer it. I know I started teach my children when younger to write in cursive, but they transitioned to public school and it isn’t taught there. I cringe when they have to sign things and they write their name in print.
I almost always write in cursive except for when I need to do quick glances at stuff when coaching or teaching, I can read print faster than cursive. That being said, the district out here does offer cursive. It's seen as a fun thing more than required and it keeps the pressure off and kids want to learn it.
Regarding the neatness of handwriting, have you seen the research about babies who crawled more? Apparently that correlates with having better handwriting later in life!
My oldest fell through the cracks. My younger two will learn cursive.
NJ just required cursive to be taught in public schools
I taught my middle and high school students cursive. Every one of them fought it, but almost every one of them has thanked me *repeatedly* for making them do it.
In Italy it's still taught, my son has had to learn it.
On a less consequential issue...can we all agree that Ilia Malinin's short program outfit is hideous? ... See MoreSee Less
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Not hideous. I was getting Hiccup vibes from HTTYD.
I am a seamstress and I love the costuming!
What? I loved his outfit! Never heard of the video game and didn’t know that’s what he was referencing. I just thought his outfit looked cool. 😅 But I do like fantasy fashion.
Apparently there is no such thing as "all agree." Sorry, Susan.
Finally something I disagree with you on 😄 I kind of love it.
My daughter said it looks inspired by How To Train Your Dragon.
I didn't watch this, but I kept doing double-takes with the time-traveling dancer towards the end of the Opening Ceremony - her outfit looked fine at the end when she was with all the other dancers of her era, but before that, she looked like her bum was completely uncovered lol 🫣
Reminded me of the Puck costume in a stage performance of A Midsummer Nights Dream I saw. 🤷♀️ Now that's I've seen it based on the video game his music is from, I guess it makes sense - but only if you pick up on it!
This young man is incredibly dedicated to his craft, please be respectful and save negativity towards him for the privacy of your home. It’s insulting.
Perfect for Justin Michael Moore
Mother of a figure skater here and I loved the whole thing. He’s amazing and his costume was 🔥
OK, well you have to remember what story he is telling. He is skating to the music from the Prince of Persia video game. He looks like one of the characters in the game.
Feels a little Narnia-esque
LOL my mom said the same thing.
Depends..I haven’t seen his performance..what was his music selection?
I thought it was a fun break from the predictable formalwear the rest of them wear!
It’s giving Ewok. I don’t hate it.
When you skate like him, you can wear anything you want and still look fabulous!!
The Slovenian downhill skier outfits look like Buzz Lightyear costumes.
Definitely not hideous. You need to know the music and the story he is telling in his skate.
Mr. Tumnus on ice??
We thought it looked kind of Puckish.
I’m in my complimentary, let’s support each other season. So all I have to to say is I’m so proud of this young man who has sacrificed, worked incredibly hard, dedicated himself to his sport, and killed it on the ice. And he’s the son of proud immigrant parents. Go, Ilia🇺🇸❄️🇺🇸
I have to disagree here. I loved it. You don’t name yourself the Quad God and then do something basic.
What's it supposed to be? I'm kind of getting bug splat on a windshield
